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A Valentine's Day Love Story - Steak, Sex & Intimacy - By Booty Parlor Founder Dana B. Myers

Valentine’s Day is here and it’s no surprise… it’s one of my favorite holidays.

Now, it wasn’t always this way. I used to HATE Valentine’s Day and write it off as a silly, “Hallmark” holiday.I suppose that was before I met my husband Charlie. Now, it feels like a very intimate holiday. A time to really reflect upon love – not just romantic love, but all the kinds of love in my life.

But I’m not going to talk about the intense, soul-drenching love I have for my two kids, or my mom, or my treasured girlfriends, or even myself.

Instead, I’m going to tell you about my love for steak.

What’s steak got to do with Valentine’s Day? I’ll tell you. It goes back to the first V-Day I ever had with Charlie. We’d been dating for a few months. We were in love and I already knew we’d be together forever — it was thrilling. I walked into his apartment and the whole place smelled of sizzling steak. Through a slightly smoky haze, I saw him buzzing around the kitchen.

A sexy British man making me sizzling steak. OMG. OH YES. It was a revelation.

And when we sat down, each bite satisfied a very deep craving – for lust and sex and love. For a man who could feed me, and in doing so, feed my desire for him.

So yeah – I discovered that the way to my heart (and my libido) is a beautifully prepared piece of meat. It’s true. It’s a little weird. But it makes me feel sexual, sensual, lusty and libidinous. Maybe I was a cave woman in another life?

The truth is, I didn’t know this about myself until Charlie made that steak.  And now, it’s a running joke in our house. A chicken roasting in the oven? Guaranteed to get me feeling frisky. A leg of lamb on a spit? Don’t even get me started. And that’s before he starts to carve it. His cooking brings out the animal in me. He likes that “weird” part of me, and in return, it turns him on.

What’s the point of me telling you this story?

Well… on a holiday where there’s such a high value placed on dinners, diamonds and expensive gifts, I suggest you focus instead on the unique intimate connections you share with your spouse. The quirky, naughty and nuanced curves of your desires and turn-ons.  The “thing” that only the two of you share.  The thing that turns you into an animal.

Talk about it, and then go there again. There’s a reason you were drawn together, so remember it. And if you feel it’s faded too far out of reach, never fear. Intimacy loves to be rekindled – it practically begs for it. Use Valentine’s Day as your excuse to spark it up again.

This year, I’ll be taking mine medium-rare!

XOXO,

DanaDana B. Myers

PS – If you’re in NYC and you’re nterested in rediscovering your enthusiasm for sex, love and lust, then join me at the Mommy Mojo Makeover workshop, starting February 27th! www.mommymojomakeover.eventbrite.com

Every Good Valentine’s Day Ends In The Bedroom

"Every Good Valentine's Day Should End In The Bedroom" - Dana B. Myers, Founder of Booty Parlor

“Every Good Valentine’s Day Should End In The Bedroom” – Dana B. Myers, Founder of Booty Parlor

Valentines Day is around the corner. Think champagne, roses, chocolate, a romantic dinner. But let’s be real, where does every hot Valentine’s Day wind up at end of the night? In the bedroom, of course!

But clutter, dirty laundry, electronics and kids’ toys can really put the kibosh on a sexy environment – and stop you before your knickers even hit the floor!

So this Valentine’s Day, clean it up and make room for Cupid!  Here are 4 quick tips to transform your bedroom into a romance-ready boudoir.

1.) Make your space work, clutter, and kid free. Jettison any traces of work; they’re a reminder of your To Do list, and of a stressful week ahead. Also, hide your laptops and ipads, unless you plan on watching something sexy on them! Clear out family photos with anyone who shouldn’t be watching you have sex — send your mother-in-law to the den. Kids toys are a reminder that you’re a great parent, but not a sexy mama!  Stow them in their proper place. It’s all a distraction from putting your Mojo first.

2.) Use light to flatter and seduce. Great soft lighting creates intimacy and warmth. Be sure you can adjust your lamps and overhead fixtures with dimmers or different settings. Chandeliers dripping in crystals are always sexy. Warm light from candles and light-filtering lampshades or amber-tinted sconce covers add enchantment. Even stringing up some delicate twinkly lights can add romance and fantasy.

3.) Set a sultry mood with fragrance. Scent can be such a turn-on in your bedroom. It will transport you away from your workday and into your own personal fantasy. Light candles and burn oils – think vanilla, musk, sandalwood, even a hint of cinnamon, or something with a subtle combination of sweet and spicy. For a fun, frisky treat, try Booty Parlor’s “Don’t Stop Massage Candle”. Massage is a great for slowing down, reconnecting with your lover, relieving stress, and stimulating the senses, instead of rushing into intercourse.

4.) Up the foreplay! Once your bedroom has successfully been transformed, go ahead and take the foreplay challenge.  No woman likes it when her lover goes straight for the bull’s-eye, right? So encourage a slow warm-up. Gently glide your lover’s hand on the outside of your jeans first, then let your partner continue over your panties. Eventually, slide his hands underneath them. At this point, you’ll be getting warm and lusting for his touch on your bare skin.

See? You’re probably feeling sexier and more inspired already. Now, go clean up your room, V-Day is almost here!

XOXO,Dana

Life & Style Magazine Hails Booty Parlor As ‘The Beauty Breakthough!’

Did you catch it?  Check out this awesome article about Booty Parlor in this week’s Life & Style Weekly!

Describing our sexy beauty products as the “Beauty Breakthrough:  Products that Lure Men!”, we can officially now call Life & Style our favorite celebrity weekly! Well, you know what they say about flattery!

The article quotes our founder, Dana B. Myers, oulining the benefits of our pheromone and aphrodisiac ingredients found in our yummy Flirty Little Secret and Kissaholi products.

Check out the article and get some tips into how to become a man magnet yourself!  Just in time for Valentine’s Day, girls . . .

Booty Parlor products featured in Life & Style Magazine

Life & Style Magazine dubs Booty Parlor products a “beauty breakthrough”!

 

 

Mojo Mission #2 – The secret to planning a memorable Valentine’s Day

5 Steps for planning the most memorable Valentine’s Day

Dana B. Myers - Founder

Are you ready for an extraordinarily sexy Valentine’s Day?  I mean, like one for the record books?  But are you just a teensy bit unsure whether your guy will know exactly how to pull it off?

Let’s face it, girls, unless your man rides a white horse, sports tights and answers to the name “Prince Something”, chances are he could use a little help from you in the planning department.

Luckily this isn’t the dark ages so we Modern Girls with Mojo can feel free to take matters into our own hands and ensure that Valentine’s Day is fabulous!  Whether you offer a little help or a lot your guy will love your straightforwardness.  Also, if you focus your attention on what will please him, it will pay you dividends.  There’s nothing sexier than a happy guy . . .

So what’s the best way to prepare for Valentine’s Day?  What’s the best way to reinvigorate your mojo and ensure the hottest night ever?  Are you ready for this fun little twist?

It’s Girls Night In!  Yes – in.  With the girls.  Here’s why:

Your friends all have their own love lives, their own sexy experiences, their own stories – and their own techniques – all of which make them a fantastic wealth of information.  Why not tap into this booty-ful bounty – and share the wealth!  This is truly a win-win-win. Why girls night “in”, you ask?  When you’re in an intimate and safe setting – such as your own home – you can talk freely about sex without the prying ears of others and without shouting over loud music to be heard.  Invite your best girlfriends over for some chilled cocktails and warm snacks and cozy up on the couch together.  Don’t forget paper and pen.  You’re gonna wanna take notes!

Here are my 5 steps for throwing the perfect Girls Night In:

 1. Think intimate.  Four close friends who are comfortable together is ideal.  Your guests will feel freer to talk openly.  Large groups can get unruly.  Email a playful and enticing invitation that will set the stage for frisky fun!

2. Set the mood.  Enjoy creating a sexy atmosphere with candles, flowers, soft lighting.  Stir up a signature cocktail for the occasion for those who might need a little liquid courage.  Mojo Mojitos, anyone?  And don’t forget the sultry tunes.  Try Portishead, Pink Martini, Chris Isaac, Prince or any slow burning R ‘n’ B.  (You mojo mavens should have at least one favorite sexy playlist all ready to cue up on your iPods anyhow, right?)

3. Ease in to the sexy talk.  Once everyone has had a chance to talk about their days, they will be loosened up to get down and dirty!  For girls, after all, talk is foreplay.

4. Keep it private.  What happens at Girls’ Night, stays at Girls’ Night!  Announce this with sincerity from the very beginning.  Your guests will feel much more comfortable to open up when they know that all their juicy details will be kept on the down low.

5. Be prepared to lead the way!  As hostess, your attitude will set the tone for the others.  Be ready with some fun stories to share.  Better still, create some conversation starters on note cards to pass out.  This will give your guests somewhere to start and will keep the lusty talk flowing.

(In my next blog I’ll share some fun, sure-fire conversation starters that everyone will love!)

With all these fun new tips, tricks and techniques (Thanks, friends! Who knew!?) you will ALL feel a surge of sexy self confidence. Like a mojo a go-go! Girl Power at its sexiest. Channel all that excitement into your Valentines plans and you and your lover will be over the moon – together. Can’t you just picture it?

I have a feeling you’re going to want to do Girls’ Night In again and again . . .

With loads of love & affection,

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V-Day Gift Guide Alert: Time for Some Sexy Shopping!

describe the imageAttention Booty Parlor Babes: Are you in the mood to shop? Our fabulous founder and Sexy Lifestyle Expert Dana B. Myers has whipped up a seductive list of goodies to give or get on this Valentine’s Day. Check out her picks and then go get ‘em at bootyparlor.com!

For You: Bring on the Burlesque!
• Va Va Voom Pink Feather Boa, $16 Whether you’re playing the role of a burlesque dancer, a naughty Marilyn Monroe, or any sexy siren, a Boa adds the perfect touch of tease.
• Foxy Bombshell Hipster Bikini, $26 This pink, playful panty is slinky and offers a flattering sihouette…so you can sashay with confidence. Features a peak-a-boo window for backside cleavage. Ooh la la!
• Good Girl/Bad Girl Feather Whipper, $24 Captivate your audience with the Good Girl/Bad Girl Feather Whipper. Naughty or nice? You call the shots.
• The Seduction LoveKit, $38 Includes the finishing touches for your sexy show (and afterwards!): Booty Parlor massage oil, lubricant, a candle, and a pout-plumping, minty lipgloss.

For Your Lovah: Trigger your partner’s Mojo with these steamy surprises.
• Don’t Stop Massage Candle, $36 Turn up the heat—this candle melts into warm oil that can be poured onto skin and massaged in. Daring…and delightful.
• Skin Honey, $22 Spice up his game by letting him decide how to use this delicious, three-in-one kissable body topping, massage gel and lubricant.
• Turn Me On Vibrating Panties, $99 Wear Booty Parlor’s famous vibrating panties to a romantic dinner and slide the gift-wrapped controller over to him. He’ll love your sexy secret!
• The Intimacy LoveKit, $24 It’s passion in a box! A disposable vibrating couples’ ring, Booty Parlor condoms, and mini-sized massage oil and lubricant.

For Your Girlfriends: Each one is frilly and fearless—these picks let her explore both sides.
• Flirty Little Secret Perfume Oil with Pheromones, $22
 The seductive scent and pheromones will make her the center of attention day or night. Dana gives this to all her best friends!
• Kissaholic Aphrodisiac Infused Plumping Lip Gloss, $16  These sultry, high shine glosses have plumping ingredients and aphrodisiacs to draw attention to the mouth…and inspire desire!
• Melt Chocolate Body Fondue, $15 She’ll get creative with this melt-able chocolate body paint—it comes with a brush! It’s also perfect for dipping fruit into, for a special V-Day treat.
• Tickle Me Intimacy LoveKit, $30 No question, she’ll put this hanky-panky-inspiring kit to good use. Includes a Marabou feather body duster, kissable body shimmer and Booty Parlor massage oil and lubricant. 

Ready to shop? We thought we’d tell you again for good measure that you can find everything you want at the V-Day Gift guide at bootyparlor.com