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Mojo Mission #2 – The secret to planning a memorable Valentine’s Day

5 Steps for planning the most memorable Valentine’s Day

Dana B. Myers - Founder

Are you ready for an extraordinarily sexy Valentine’s Day?  I mean, like one for the record books?  But are you just a teensy bit unsure whether your guy will know exactly how to pull it off?

Let’s face it, girls, unless your man rides a white horse, sports tights and answers to the name “Prince Something”, chances are he could use a little help from you in the planning department.

Luckily this isn’t the dark ages so we Modern Girls with Mojo can feel free to take matters into our own hands and ensure that Valentine’s Day is fabulous!  Whether you offer a little help or a lot your guy will love your straightforwardness.  Also, if you focus your attention on what will please him, it will pay you dividends.  There’s nothing sexier than a happy guy . . .

So what’s the best way to prepare for Valentine’s Day?  What’s the best way to reinvigorate your mojo and ensure the hottest night ever?  Are you ready for this fun little twist?

It’s Girls Night In!  Yes – in.  With the girls.  Here’s why:

Your friends all have their own love lives, their own sexy experiences, their own stories – and their own techniques – all of which make them a fantastic wealth of information.  Why not tap into this booty-ful bounty – and share the wealth!  This is truly a win-win-win. Why girls night “in”, you ask?  When you’re in an intimate and safe setting – such as your own home – you can talk freely about sex without the prying ears of others and without shouting over loud music to be heard.  Invite your best girlfriends over for some chilled cocktails and warm snacks and cozy up on the couch together.  Don’t forget paper and pen.  You’re gonna wanna take notes!

Here are my 5 steps for throwing the perfect Girls Night In:

 1. Think intimate.  Four close friends who are comfortable together is ideal.  Your guests will feel freer to talk openly.  Large groups can get unruly.  Email a playful and enticing invitation that will set the stage for frisky fun!

2. Set the mood.  Enjoy creating a sexy atmosphere with candles, flowers, soft lighting.  Stir up a signature cocktail for the occasion for those who might need a little liquid courage.  Mojo Mojitos, anyone?  And don’t forget the sultry tunes.  Try Portishead, Pink Martini, Chris Isaac, Prince or any slow burning R ‘n’ B.  (You mojo mavens should have at least one favorite sexy playlist all ready to cue up on your iPods anyhow, right?)

3. Ease in to the sexy talk.  Once everyone has had a chance to talk about their days, they will be loosened up to get down and dirty!  For girls, after all, talk is foreplay.

4. Keep it private.  What happens at Girls’ Night, stays at Girls’ Night!  Announce this with sincerity from the very beginning.  Your guests will feel much more comfortable to open up when they know that all their juicy details will be kept on the down low.

5. Be prepared to lead the way!  As hostess, your attitude will set the tone for the others.  Be ready with some fun stories to share.  Better still, create some conversation starters on note cards to pass out.  This will give your guests somewhere to start and will keep the lusty talk flowing.

(In my next blog I’ll share some fun, sure-fire conversation starters that everyone will love!)

With all these fun new tips, tricks and techniques (Thanks, friends! Who knew!?) you will ALL feel a surge of sexy self confidence. Like a mojo a go-go! Girl Power at its sexiest. Channel all that excitement into your Valentines plans and you and your lover will be over the moon – together. Can’t you just picture it?

I have a feeling you’re going to want to do Girls’ Night In again and again . . .

With loads of love & affection,

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5 Sexy Tips for the Perfect New Year’s Eve Look

Dana B. Myers - Founder


Okay lovelies, the countdown to the countdown has officially begun!  Are you ready to hit the town stunning?  Before the ball drops and the corks pop (and your lips lock!) get your mojo running to ring in 2014 as your super sexiest ever.

Whether you’re attached, single, throwing a big bash or staying in to snuggle, there’s simply no such thing as too glamorous or too sexy for New Year’s Eve.  To help you get ready for the big night, we’ve come up with our own little countdown – our top five beauty tips for an even more dazzling you:


  1. Sexy skin is the perfect foundation for any look, so start your NYE ritual by making sure every inch of your skin is touchably soft and glowing – especially for this season’s mini-mini skirts.  Booty Parlor’s Flirty Little Secret Firming Bronzer with Pheromones evens skin tone, offers a hint of golden shimmer and packs a powerful secret weapon to make you irresistible.
  2. Looking forward to 2014?  The on-trend eye is smoky smooth with bold lashes for texture.  Edge your lash line with a hint of brilliant sparkle to up the party-glam factor, but keep it real.  The idea is chic – but approachable. Lisa Eldridge has a fab tutorial for the smoky glam look here.

    Amber Anderson with a smoky, glam eye look created by Lisa Eldridge

    Image: Amber Anderson wearing a smoky, glam eye look created by Lisa Eldridge. Don’t miss the tutorial link!

  3. When the clock strikes midnight will you be kissing your lover . . . or an exciting stranger?  Anything goes on New Year’s Eve!  For an exceptionally kissable pout keep lips exfoliated and well hydrated – alternating glasses of water with your champagne cocktails – and reapplying gloss.  Our Kissaholic Lip Stains provide oh-so-smoochable color that lasts well into the “oui” hours.
  4. Get the low-down on highlighter.  If applied correctly this oft-overlooked beauty booster can take your face to a whole new level – especially in party lighting.  With the right amount of sheen, you can hide little imperfections and reflect the light in a most flattering way.  Practice with an expert at the beauty counter and you’ll soon be a pro at home. Or watch this simple vid from Birchbox.
  5. And speaking of highlights, turn heads with an extra smokin’-hot ensemble!  While most women will opt for a festive top and jeans, go for a figure-flattering dress that emphasizes your curviest assets and celebrates your femininity.  Add a pair of sparkly heels and bling in the new year!

Now that you’re looking hotter than hot, baby, why not keep ‘em guessing with a few sexy tricks up your sleeve?  You, my dear, have the power to create the most memorable New Year’s Eve imaginable.  It’s pretty much all in your hands.

  1. Turn Me On Vibrating Panties are the ultimate party plaything.  Start the evening by slipping the remote control into your lover’s pocket.  Strut into the party and watch him go gaga as you make your moves on the dance floor.  (Note to yourself:  try to control your facial expressions!)

    Turn Me On Vibrating Panties

    The Ultimate Party Plaything – Turn Me On Vibrating Panties

  2. Brush up on the fine art of flirting!  There isn’t a guy with a pulse who doesn’t love flirtatious attention – even if he’s already your guy.  (And maybe even especially so!)  Keep it playful.  Good-natured teasing is our personal fave.  But a lingering look, a hand on his arm when he makes you laugh, and/or a genuine compliment can work wonders.  If you like his sexy blue eyes – tell him!  But just once.  Flirting is like glitter:  A little goes a long way. Check out chapter 17 of my book, The Official Booty Parlor Mojo Makeover – Four Weeks to a Sexier You, for tips on creating flirtation. The Official Booty Parlor Mojo Makeover Book
  3. Have you been good or bad this year?  The Good Girl / Bad Girl Feather Spanker will help you both decide.  Brandish it playfully at the party (a super fun accessory) and let it seductively foreshadow what’s to come.  After the midnight countdown, take it into the bedroom together for a little hanky spanky.  Start the new year with a bang!

Now, make this the year of you – only sexier!  Carry your revamped sexy mojo into the new year.  There is no reason to limit all this action to one little night.  Just imagine the possibilities if you enjoyed this level of sexy self-confidence throughout 2014 – and beyond.

With loads of love & affection,

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Seductive Beauty Rituals

Dana MyersHello from the Caribbean beaches!

I hope that everyone had a wonderful holiday and New Year. Getting away from the hustle and bustle to feel the ocean breeze through my hair makes me SO happy. With this beautiful weather, I am able to wear more dresses AND my Flirty Little Secret Firming Bronzer! My legs, hips and arms glow and I am ready for the day!

We have so many exciting things in the works this year at Booty Parlor; but right now, let’s talk about YOU and how you can create a Seductive Beauty Ritual for yourself for 2013.

Okay, so what exactly is a sexy beauty ritual? It’s an experience that transforms your daily self-care into something far more special – an experience that becomes meaningful to your Mojo, your sexuality, femininity, confidence, and creativity.  Whether you are putting on your lipstick or your body butter…each ritual paves the way to accepting YOU just how YOU are…a beautiful vixen!

Let’s start from the neck up. Don’t just apply makeup- seduce with it!

Focus on your assets. Let’s start with your lips. Apply Booty Parlor’s Kissaholic — it’s an aphrodisiac-infused plumping lip gloss with exotic ingredients that will tempt your desires.  Strike a seductive pose and gaze at those irresistible lips. Doing that will make you want yourself!

Next, let’s focus on the neck down. I get it; this part can be challenging, but it doesn’t have to be. A huge part of your sexy beauty ritual is using affirmations to help you make a solid connection to loving your beautiful sensual self and help you to boost your sexy self-confidence as you’re preparing for your day.

As you get out of the shower, take time to caress your lotion into your skin. I recommend Booty Parlor’s Flirty Little Secret Firming Cream with Pheremones. It is a light lotion with a hint of shimmer that will leave your skin feeling soft and the firming effect is a guaranteed confidence booster. Everywhere you have a curve, you should be giving it love and attention! By doing this ritual daily, you will learn to love yourself and you will find that the negative body banter will slowly disappear.

When you are dressed and ready to take on the world, remember to infuse your day with sex appeal!

What sexy rituals will you do for yourself?  Is it making sure you sparkle every day with Dust Up Kissable Body Shimmer, writing down the things you love about yourself? The journey is YOURS to play with, mix it up and make them your own!

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How to Kiss…with Confidence!

Valentine’s Day—the sexiest day of the year!—is fast approaching,describe the image and you’ll want to kiss with confidence. Explore these sexy smooches below, practice them, and then on February 14th—go for it with your Mojo blazing! Your kiss-ee will never forget the moment. Whether you practice in the mirror, or in your imagination (a mini-movie starring you and Brad Pitt perhaps?), get into the moment—have some fun!

1. Single lip kiss. Lean in and gently take the kiss-ee’s top or bottom lip between yours, and suck slightly as you pull away. It’s incredibly sensual.
2. Breezy kiss. Kiss, then keep lips’ in contact for an extra (flirty) second, and blow gently on your sweetie’s lips before pulling away. 
3. French kiss. Either mad and passionate, or slow and sexy, this classic can be teased into countless steamy variations.
4. Ice cube kiss. Take an ice cube from your cocktail into your mouth and grab his attention with an ice cold French kiss…hot!
5. The French tickler. Before pulling away from a French Kiss, lightly run the tip of your tongue across your partner’s lips.
6. Upside-down kiss. Lean down and plant one while your honey is lying in bed. Or, make it a surprise! Logistically, this will require sneaking up behind someone who’s seated in a chair or on a couch—as long as you’re sure it will be welcome, it’ll be amazing.

Of course, a little plumping lip gloss is a must for these smooches. It will make your lips look and feel like they can work magic! Add a minty breath booster and you will feel unstoppable.

Enjoy prepping for your smackdown—let me know which kisses you liked best!

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