Seductive Beauty Rituals

Dana MyersHello from the Caribbean beaches!

I hope that everyone had a wonderful holiday and New Year. Getting away from the hustle and bustle to feel the ocean breeze through my hair makes me SO happy. With this beautiful weather, I am able to wear more dresses AND my Flirty Little Secret Firming Bronzer! My legs, hips and arms glow and I am ready for the day!

We have so many exciting things in the works this year at Booty Parlor; but right now, let’s talk about YOU and how you can create a Seductive Beauty Ritual for yourself for 2013.

Okay, so what exactly is a sexy beauty ritual? It’s an experience that transforms your daily self-care into something far more special – an experience that becomes meaningful to your Mojo, your sexuality, femininity, confidence, and creativity.  Whether you are putting on your lipstick or your body butter…each ritual paves the way to accepting YOU just how YOU are…a beautiful vixen!

Let’s start from the neck up. Don’t just apply makeup- seduce with it!

Focus on your assets. Let’s start with your lips. Apply Booty Parlor’s Kissaholic — it’s an aphrodisiac-infused plumping lip gloss with exotic ingredients that will tempt your desires.  Strike a seductive pose and gaze at those irresistible lips. Doing that will make you want yourself!

Next, let’s focus on the neck down. I get it; this part can be challenging, but it doesn’t have to be. A huge part of your sexy beauty ritual is using affirmations to help you make a solid connection to loving your beautiful sensual self and help you to boost your sexy self-confidence as you’re preparing for your day.

As you get out of the shower, take time to caress your lotion into your skin. I recommend Booty Parlor’s Flirty Little Secret Firming Cream with Pheremones. It is a light lotion with a hint of shimmer that will leave your skin feeling soft and the firming effect is a guaranteed confidence booster. Everywhere you have a curve, you should be giving it love and attention! By doing this ritual daily, you will learn to love yourself and you will find that the negative body banter will slowly disappear.

When you are dressed and ready to take on the world, remember to infuse your day with sex appeal!

What sexy rituals will you do for yourself?  Is it making sure you sparkle every day with Dust Up Kissable Body Shimmer, writing down the things you love about yourself? The journey is YOURS to play with, mix it up and make them your own!

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Gift Guide – For Lovers: Spice Up the Season

Hey Lovahs,

It’s time to spice up the season!

Before you start huffing and puffing about how there’s never any time for nooky while you’re traveling for the holidays, I’m here to tell you this X-Mas is going to be different. Why, you ask? Because you are going to make it so. I know that a week of sugary cookies and family dynamics is enough to dampen anyone’s libido, but you are going to plan a preemptive strike against libido loss. Let’s make a pact to have the sexiest, most satisfying holiday ever.  Are you with me?

Here’s what you’ll do:

Pack a special box of sexy stocking stuffers to gift your lover during your travels. Ask them to unwrap one prezzie each day, with the intention of inspiring a fresh & sexy experience for you to create together. (Be sure you’re gifting/opening in private – you’ll see why in a second!). As each day passes, your love will be dying to see what seductive surprise you have in store for them next. It’s literally like making an appointment for connection, for intimacy, for satisfaction and holiday stress-relief. In between these stolen sessions away from the family, don’t forget to do lots of PDA amongst them and sneak outside for a snowball fight. Here’s a few suggestions to get you going:

Day 1: Kick off the trip with the Turn Me On Vibrating Panties.  Let your lover watch you as you tie the silk ribbons around your hips and pass him the remote control. Head off to the welcome party and watch his temperature rise as the eggnog is served. (Make note to self: try to control your facial expressions!)

Day 2: Have you been good or bad this year? Let him decide with the Good Girl/Bad Girl Feather Spanker. This day’s session is all about role play. He gets to be Naughty Santa, and you, his frisky elf-ette. When you’re good, it’s all soft marabou feathers against your skin. When you’ve been bad, a game of slap-and-tickle. Oh, Santa!!

Day 3: On the 3rd day of Christmas, my true love gave to me… A bubble bath, sexy massage and orgasm that brought me to my knees. And when you gift The Romantic Rendevous LoveKit, that’s exactly what you’ll get.

Day 4: Unexpected delays at the airport? Don’t panic. Just check into the airport hotel and whip out your final gift, The Intimacy LoveKit.  It’s passion in a TSA-approved box and a surefire way to have an inspired quickie. Deluxe travel-sized massage oil and lubricant heat things up, while the disposable vibrating couples’ ring helps out in the satisfaction department. (Condoms are included if you’re not in the mood for baby-makin’.)

Take one idea, take all four. Just do something to create a sexy & memorable moment with your lover this year.


Holiday Gift Guide #1 – Gift Yourself

Dana MyersIt’s December, and it’s my favorite month, for so many reasons. I bundle up in chunky scarves and drink hot cocoa like it’s nectar of the Gods. I smile & get teary-eyed listening to X-Mas music on the radio (I mean, Do they know it’s Christmastime at home?). I get to fire up the Chanukah candles and have a cozy Christmas all within the span of a few weeks. Kisses, wishes and champagne close out the month as we welcome the New Year, and all the new possibilities it holds.  Oh, and one other thing. December is my BIRTHDAY MONTH!!

Now, I know this is the season of giving to others, but I do a considerable amount of gifting myself around this time of year.  I can’t ignore the fact that’s it’s my birthday just because it’s X-Mas, right? I try not to go overboard, but I do treat myself to some prezzies to ceIebrate the end of one year and the onset of another in my life — older, wiser, happier, sexier and more fabulous.

So, in honor of my “gift yourself” tradition, this first gift guide is all about YOU. These are the little Booty Parlor treats I recommend to brighten your sexy self-confidence and help you shine during the season. And I know if you love ‘em, your best girlfriends will be just as thrilled when they unwrap theirs.

Here’s my Top 5 Gifts to Give Yourself (and your Best Friends~)

Naughty Bubbles Bubble Bath ($22) Sometimes the only place a girl can go to escape the hustle & bustle of the season is the bath tub. Do. Not. Disturb. Right? The black tuberose scent will blow your mind, and the luscious bubbles will float you away to a very happy place.

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Don’t Stop Massage Candle ($32): If you love candles, and you love massages, and you love the idea of experiencing the classic “hot wax” fantasy without any actual pain, this is the gift for you. The wax melts into a warm, nourishing massage oil that you can drizzle onto skin – lighting up your senses and giving you a foreplay story to write about in your diary.  


The Official Booty Parlor Mojo Makeover: 4 Weeks to a Sexier You ($14.99)  I truly believe this is the gift that keeps on giving.  The Mojo Makeover experience will change the way you feel about yourself and infuse your daily life with a massive dose of SEXINESS! Give one to your bestie and support one another through the process. You’ll boost your sexy self-confidence and discover what’s uniquely sexy about each of YOU. It’s the perfect way to end the year and ring in the new one…

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Flirty Little Favorites ($36) Let the power-pampering begin! This trio of seductive beauty boosters is designed to trigger instant sexiness and inspire fearless flirtation. Sounds about right for all those upcoming holiday parties, yes?! All three products — the Perfume Oil, Pink Caviar Sugar Scrub, and Body Butter — are formulated with our proprietary pheromone blend to inspire body-to-body chemistry and get you all the attention. Plus, this one’s pretty in it’s giftable box, even your mother will love this as a gift (she wants to be sexy too, you know!)

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Kissaholic Aphrodisiac Plumping Lip Gloss ($16)  Position yourself uber-close to the mistletoe and get ready for a make out marathon. This super-glossy-but-never-sticky formula comes in 6 amazing shades, but I recommend trying Throb (sparkling red) or Tremble (sparking pink) since they’re so festive. The aphrodisiac blend is designed to inspire desire… but be careful, someone might catch you kissing S.C.!

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Ok, happy shopping (for yourself!) and let me know if you have any questions in the comments below!

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Get Your Mental Mojo Moving!

Dana MyersAs a new mama, I find myself gabbing with other moms about all sorts of “new mommy” topics — sleeping, breastfeeding, teething, sleeping (again), and of course, sex.  Or really, the lack of sex.  It seems that the curse of new mommyhood is a non-existent libido; as if the sexual spark that gets you pregnant in the first place burrows away into some deep, dark hibernation.

One mama said to me, “I just can’t even think about sex.”  Of course, therein lies the problem! Once you stop thinking about sex, it fades out of your life pretty quickly. Now, that’s not breaking news, but it is true. When you stop remembering what sex — and feeling sexy– can do for you, you lose the motivation to make it an integral part of your life.  Whether it’s the life-altering presence of a new baby, the stresses of a high-profile job, a to-do list that’s toppling over, or you’re just stuck in a rut with your lover, it can be challenging to keep the desire alive.  I totally get it. But I’m here to tell you that if you can get sex back on your brain, you’ll have it back in your bedroom in no time.  And I know you’ll feel happier and more satisfied when you do.  I know I do!  So, here’s a couple of quick ideas to get your mental mojo moving again…

  1. Look for visual and mental stimulation every day. There are seductive elements in so many places, you just need to keep your eyes open for them and embrace the opportunities they present. When I hit up the LA Farmer’s Market, the spectacularly phallic carrots and other natural wonders make me giggle and think naughty thoughts.  Staying on the subject of food, I ate a chocolate pot de creme yesterday, and the flavors & texture were so rich that I couldn’t help but feel sensual.  It might be the way a flower opens, or that you catch a scent that reminds you of your hottest one-night-stand. Whatever it is, make it a point to jot down the things you see, hear, smell and feel that please you and make you a little lusty.  Use a mini notebook or an App on your phone and then, a couple times a week, check back and see what you wrote. It’ll remind you of what revs your motor…
  2. Bring out the fantasy lingerie. When I say “fantasy,” I really mean costumes. Naughty nurse. Jail bird. Fluffy bunny. Sexy Mobster. Dressing up in a sexy costume is an instant libido booster.  For most, it means instant sex-on-the-brain because, if it’s not Halloween, why else would you be wearing it except for a sexy bedroom session? It makes you feel a little silly and naughty all at once, and prompts you to think, “Ok, what am I going to do now that I’m in this thing?” Not only will you look foxy, but it’ll be easy to lose yourself in a new role, taking you out of the boredom/stresses of your daily life. It’s an experiment in newness and it will bring on the creativity and a sense of play.
  3. Stock a seductive book. Whether it’s a oversized book of provocative photography or an anthology of sexy stories, make room for a little extra stimulation that’ll move your mind onto something sexier than baby bottles or your grocery list.  At the end of a long day, it might seem easier to thumb through US Weekly, but seeing what Lindsey wore to court won’t deliver you the motivation you need to get your mojo moving.  Reading a short story — be it romantic or kinky — will ignite your imagination and spark up your desire.  Then, it’s up to you to act on the inspiration!

Whether you’re a new mommy, a high-powered business woman, or you’ve just grown complacent in your relationship, I want you to remember how important “sexy” is in your life.  Use these little tips to bring sexy back to your brain, and work to keep it alive.  Because when you’re living as the sexiest, most fabulous and vibrant version of you — with confidence, self-love, and an active pursuit of the sexy satisfaction you deserve — all of your life’s other endeavors will benefit! 

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How to Flirt Like You Mean It

describe the imageSomething I get asked a lot is: how can I attract attention from a guy when I’m out? No question, it can be hard to start a conversation with a cute guy at a bar. “Hi, I’m Dana, and I’d like to get to know you,” is direct, and that alone can be super sexy, but it just isn’t going to roll out of a lot of women’s mouths. Instead, I always recommend using body language. There are lots of options, from a simple smile, to more showy va-va-voom maneuvers—and so anyone can feel confident! Practice these moves in a mirror to see what feels natural, and then go for it!!

Smile! You’re happy to be there, happy to be flirting, happy to be living up to your sexiest self. Happiness is magnetic, and that makes you approachable!
Twirl your hair Playing with your hair can be used to attract your target’s attention. It’s ultra-feminine, and a classic symbol of flirtation. While you twirl your locks, remember to expose your kissable neck, and trace your fingers subtly across your skin. Then send a flirtatious, coy glance his way.
Hold the gaze When you’ve identified someone you want to flirt with, give him a soft, seductive glance, and when he catches you looking, hold it for a few seconds, then look away. Then do it again. He’ll know you’re flirting and you’ll know if he’s interested if he holds your gaze. If he doesn’t, move on.
Show your curves Arching your back naturally pushes your bust forward, and your bum back. Try it just ever…so…slightly when someone is looking at you. It will light up their mind and make you feel super seductive and feminine.
Put your lips into play A little nibble on the corner of your mouth, or even a tiny lick at the corner of your upper lip is a superb visual reference for your flirting object to see. It will get his wheels turning, imagining what other seductive maneuvers your lips can do. Don’t be too blatant or porn-y about this. Just be subtle, subtle, subtle, like you really are licking something off (imagine there’s a dot of cappuccino froth on your lip).
Touch flirt-ily If you’re already engaged in conversation, casual touches on the arm will let the person you’re flirting with know that you’re definitely flirting with him.

Ready to get your flirt on? I know you are. Remember, the key here is subtley—and to have fun! Bring a few BFFs along. Having their support will spark your courage, and generate a lot of tension-busting giggles. Which is perfect because when you’re having fun, you’re relaxed, and acting yourself…and that’s incredibly attractive!


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Top 10 Sexiest Movies!

describe the imageIn honor of the Oscars, The Booty Parlor staff has worked up a list of Sexiest Movies—red hot picks that fill your mind with naughty thoughts long after the credits roll. Some made the list because their sizzle captivated us from start to end, and others, for a single lusty scene that we still replay in our heads (a fab way to boost the old Mojo…doubly so if you insert yourself into the sexy scene!). No question, this list could be 50 flicks long…so let’s get it there. Read and add your own nominees! Bonus: We’re giving away a free Booty Parlor Va-Va-Voom Pink Boa to the first three people to leave their picks! Add them in the comments spot below! 

1. 9-1/2 Weeks This classic remains a sexy must-see because it’s still crazy-hot. And, a piece of trivia: 9-1/2 Weeks started the food-as-foreplay revolution—so it’s the mother of Melt Chocolate Body Fondue!
2. Atonement. After a dozen viewings…the library scene, with Keira Knightley in that green fall-away dress, and James McAvoy just being…James McAvoy still takes our breath away. We play this one in our heads on a regular rotation. 

iStock  ropXSmall3. A Walk on the Moon Viggo Mortensen’s hot hippie traveling shirt salesman meets just-getting-by Diane Lane and lights up her Mojo. And the super hot waterfall scene, whew!
4. Chocolat Two words…Johnny Depp. Let’s face it: the man is a  turn-on in a pirate wig with fake teeth but here he’s in rare form: looking like the sexy man he is, with a hot accent. Bon appetit!
5. The Notebook Desperate longing. Rapture in a dilapidated mansion. And the best kissing scenes ever between Rachel McAdams and Ryan Gosling.
6. Out of Sight George Clooney, a hunky bank robber, and Jennifer Lopez, a saucy federal marshal, enjoy playful banter and ignite major chemistry along the way, which adds to their overal steaminess.
7. Cruel Intentions Reese Witherspoon, Sarah Michelle Gellar, Ryan Phillippe, and Selma Blair, are young, nubile, backstabbing and randy as all heck.
8. Unfaithful Diane Lane is a bored suburbanite who hooks a tasty lothario (who isn’t her buttoned-up husband). So wrong, but so hot.
9. The Age of Innocence Set in what you think is prim-and-proper 19th century New York City. But underneath the politeness is a whole lotta heat. When Daniel Day-Lewis unbuttons Michelle Pfeiffer’s glove and kisses her bare wrist, trust us: it’s today’s equivalent of ripping her clothes off. Passion level: 10 out of 10.
10. Secretary. Frisky, adventurous types will like the strange, erotic office politics in this risque art house film, starring Maggie Gyllenhaal. 

The list could go on, and on…that’s where you come in. Share/debate/discuss your picks in the comments!

Time for Sexy Capades! Tell us your….no-fail pick up moves!

describe the imageWelcome to the first installment of Sexy Capades! Learn and share tips for seduction and sexiness with other Booty Parlor Babes.

Today’s topic: Share your best no-fail flirty pick up moves—your special secret for grabbing the spotlight! Booty Parlor Staffers will get the fun started. Take it away ladies!

• “I have nice, large eyes…I know I do, and I play them up even more with a few false lashes, on top, at the outer corners. It gives me an Angelina Jolie vixen-y vibe that draws guys in.” —Andrea

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 • “I love hats, and I wear them out. It makes you stand out in the best possible way, and they’re a conversation starter. People find it intriguing somehow.” —Sophie

• “I’m hitched now, but when I was single this was my signature move: A dusting of body shimmer between my décolletage. It really enhances the assets, and I am telling you, it got me plenty of attention (and free drinks!).” —Mary Rose

Good stuff, right? Okay ladies we’ve shown you ours, now show us whatca got! Tell us your best tips…add them into the comments below!

Don’t just undress…seduce!

describe the imageNo question, it can sometimes feel…strange taking your clothes off in front of someone else. And if your workaround is to strip down as fast as humanly possible, or if you use stealth—maybe you wiggle out of your clothes in the dark, you’re missing an amazing Mojo boosting opportunity for you and your partner. From here on out, I want you to own the moment…and seduce with it! Ready?

There’s an art to taking it all off and it boils down to three words: be a tease. Draw the moment out to build anticipation.

Your bra: Push the shoulder straps down slowly, one at a time. Then while gently holding the bra in place with one hand, slide the other back along one side and unhinge the clasp. Keep holding the front for a few seconds (an about-to-fall-off bra is hot). Then make a show of dropping it to the floor.

Panties: Slowly tug one side down a few inches, then the other side, wiggle your bum…and pull them back up. Then lie back and suggest that your partner peel them off. Lift your hips and forelegs a few inches to help them glide down, and when they reach your toes, say you’ll take it from there, and then flick them across the room!

Lace-up bodices: If you’re wearing a lingerie top with lots of hooks or laces in the back, turn your bod so your partner sees the view and slowly, methodically undo each tiny hinge. 

Chemises, baby dolls, and flowy teddies: Remove them while standing up. Make eye contact and gently glide your fingers across your collarbone and push down one strap, and then the other, and then hold the gown in place with one hand, and release so it drops down and puddles around your feet. 

Stockings: Kick off your heels, then prop one foot on a chair or the bed frame. Slowly release the garter clips from one leg, then roll one stocking down, slowly, and when you reach your calf, sit back on the bed, point your toe out, and ask for help removing the rest. Repeat on the other leg.

Of course your partner will be spellbound by all of this, but how does this fuel your Mojo? Putting on a provocative show makes you feel sexy and desirable (you can totally get the boost solo—strip down in front of a mirror!). The more often you experience that gorgeous feeling, and confidence that goes with it, the better!

Think of me the next time you strip. Oh come on, you know what I mean!

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